Cognitive distortions further create tension in relationships and feelings of isolation and increase workplace difficulties (Hofman et al., 2013).
Understanding the various types of cognitive distortions is the first step to changing them and improving mental health, relationships, and emotional wellbeing.
Cognitive Distortions List, Types & Examples
There are numerous ways to categorize cognitive distortions, and it can help individuals improve self-awareness to identify and understand them.
Four categories of cognitive distortions include self-centered, blaming others, minimizing and mislabeling, and assuming the worst (Barriga et al., 2001).
1. Self-centered
Self-centered cognitive distortions involve thinking in extremes.
All-or-nothing thinking
Also known as “black and white thinking,” it is the inability to see shades of gray. Everything is viewed in terms of extremes (Hofmann et al., 2013).
For example, something is either awful or fantastic. You believe you are either a total failure or completely perfect. “I cheated on my diet, so I might as well eat whatever I want the rest of the week.”
Mind reading
Mind reading or “jumping to conclusions” happens when people assume they know what someone else is thinking. For example, someone might see a stranger’s unpleasant expression and automatically assume they are thinking something negative about them (Hofmann et al., 2013).
Should statements
Should statements are ones that we make to ourselves about what we “should,” “ought,” or “must” do. These thoughts set up unrealistic expectations that will most likely not be met.
“Should” statements can lead to guilt, shame, and resentment. We get disappointed when others don’t meet our expectations and beat ourselves up when we don’t follow through with what we “ought” to do (Beck & Beck, 2011).
For example, “I should always be nice regardless of how I feel.” Or, “I shouldn’t have made so many mistakes.”
2. Blaming others
Blaming others is the opposite of self-centered thinking. When things go wrong, it is always someone else’s fault.
Control fallacies
Control fallacies manifest as one of two beliefs. One is that we have no control over our lives and are helpless victims. The second is that we are in complete control of ourselves and surroundings and take full responsibility for the feelings of those around us (Beck & Beck, 2011).
For example, “Relationship conflict is always due to the other person.” Or, “It is my fault my parents divorced.”
3. Minimization and mislabeling
These distortions involve giving less weight to positive things and more weight to negative things.
Magnification and minimization
This distortion is also known as the “binocular trick” because it skews perspective through either exaggerating or minimizing meaning, importance, or likelihood (Beck & Beck, 2011).
An athlete who is generally a good player but makes a mistake may magnify the impact and start to believe they are a terrible player. Another athlete who wins an important award may minimize the importance of their contribution and continue believing they are only a mediocre player.
For example, “I failed the test so I will fail school and never get a job.”
Labeling and mislabeling
Labeling and mislabeling are extreme forms of overgeneralization where judgments of value are assigned to ourselves or others based on only one example or experience (Beck & Beck, 2011).
A student may label themselves as “an idiot” for failing one assignment. A waiter may label a customer as “a stingy old miser” if they leave a bad tip. Mislabeling refers to the application of highly emotional, loaded, and inaccurate language when making statements.
For example, if someone gets in one car accident, they label themselves as a terrible driver.
4. Assuming the worst
Assuming the worst can lead to depression and includes the following five distortions (Barriga et al., 2001):
Overgeneralization
When broad conclusions are made from a single event, this is considered an overgeneralization. Overgeneralization can lead to chronic pessimism and negativity about oneself and the environment based on a single experience (Beck & Beck, 2011).
For example, somebody gets a flat tire and says, “This always happens to me. I have terrible luck.”
Emotional reasoning
Emotional reasoning occurs when we accept our emotions as fact. It is often described as “I feel it; therefore, it must be true.” This is a common distortion because emotions are powerful, but they are not necessarily the truth (Hofmann et al., 2013).
For example, “I feel lucky tonight. I’ll bet my paycheck on that horse race.”
Mental filtering
When individuals focus only on negative aspects and ignore the positive in situations, events, or other people it is a form of mental filtering. This leads to an altered perception of reality that magnifies the negative (Beck & Beck, 2011).
For example, focusing only on negative feedback from a performance or presentation and ignoring any positive feedback.
Disqualifying the positive
Similar to mental filtering, disqualifying the positive occurs when positive experiences are rejected. When individuals do this about their own accomplishments, it can erode self-esteem and confidence (Beck & Beck, 2011).
For example, “I only won because there was no competition.”
Personalization
As the title implies, this distortion involves taking everything personally or assigning blame to oneself (Beck & Beck, 2011).
This cognitive distortion covers a wide range of situations from assuming you are the reason a friend did not enjoy a night out to believing that you are the cause for every instance of irritation in those around you.
For example, “It’s my fault that the party failed.”
What our readers think
very good article,,but its difficult to get your emotions to listen to the positives as they keep rebelling
Hi, thank you very much for above article on cognitive biases. I bumped on it as I searched about how deceptive thoughts can be. I definitely struggle with a few of those biases like black and white thinking, perfectionism, catastrophizing and always be right. This resource is such a big help to me. I have learnt to approach situations more objectively and be aware of thoughts that creep in to try and keep me from taking action or cause me to take certain action. Thankyou