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Articles on the applied positive psychology of relationships and communication based on the latest scientific insights.

Anchor Cards for Positive Relationships

How to Strengthen Your Relationships Using Anchor Cards

Think about the friends you’ve kept since high school or the coworkers you’ve stayed close to over the years. Have you stopped to ask whether [...]

Positive parenting styles

Positive Parenting Styles: An Integrative Map for Practitioners

There is no shortage of parent education resources available today. While the quantity of information might be viewed as a positive step in the child-rearing [...]

Adult avoidant attachment style

Avoidant Attachment Style in Adults: Signs & Interventions

Avoidant attachment style does not always look the way we expect it to. It can show up as independence, composure, and capability, qualities that are [...]

Healing your attachment style

10 Tips to Heal Your Attachment Style

If you feel stuck in the same relationship patterns, it’s easy to assume that this is just “how you are” or “how relationships are.” While [...]

Understanding the anxious-avoidant loop

How Couples Can Overcome the Anxious–Avoidant Loop

One partner has a strong emotional reaction, laying everything out on the table. The other withdraws and shuts down. If this sounds familiar, you might [...]

What is constructive conflict?

Constructive Conflict: A Step-by-Step Communication Protocol

Conflict is a part of any interpersonal relationship and arises because no two people are exactly the same. As couples interact with one another on [...]

Conflict Resolution Anchor Cards

How to Use Conflict Resolution Anchor Cards

Relationships give our lives purpose. They are central to our wellbeing and shape our sense of belonging. Yet, with relationships come inevitable disagreements, and for [...]

How to use Boundary Building Anchor Cards

How to Use Boundary-Building Anchor Cards

When’s the last time you accepted an invitation you wanted to decline? Or let the pressure of your boss’s expectations keep you back late at [...]

Guilt trip manipulation

How to Respond to a Guilt Trip

A guilt trip is a manipulative tactic in which one person intentionally tries to make another feel guilty to influence their behavior or decisions. Rather [...]

The meaning of guilt tripping

What Is the Meaning of Guilt-Tripping?

We’ve all heard questions like, “Was it really too much to ask?” or “You didn’t have a moment to spare?” While these questions may appear [...]

3 Positive Relationships Exercises Pack