6 Positive Feelings Worksheets
According to Barbara Fredrickson’s (2010) positivity ratio, we should aim for three heartfelt positive emotional experiences for every negative emotional experience.
In doing so, we are creating a path to human flourishing that supports a readiness to make positive contributions to the world in which we live (Fredrickson, 2010).
Sometimes it can help to make a start by becoming better at identifying emotions.
The following is a selection of worksheets that encourage positive feelings.
Build an Emotions Portfolio
This incredibly useful worksheet focuses on identifying instances of the following positive emotions:
Hope
Awe
Joy
Gratitude
Serenity
Inspiration
The individual is asked questions such as:
When have you felt most grateful for someone or something?
What do you treasure most in life?
When do you feel most like giving back?
Spending time reflecting on positive emotions is an act of savoring that maximizes their effectiveness and increases positivity over time.
Capitalizing Positive Emotions
Sharing positive emotions can benefit both the communicator and the recipient and involves three stages.
- Identifying and bringing awareness to the positive emotions that result from an event
- Supplying context and sharing the details with a partner to visualize
- Paying careful attention and appropriately reacting to what is being said
Dispute Negative Thinking
In this activity, the client replaces negative thoughts with more helpful, positive ones to reduce or remove their negative impact on our emotions.
For example:
“I’ll never be able to do this.”
becomes
“I’ve done this before; I can do it again.”
Positive Memories of Childhood
We typically focus on the negatives. Such negativity bias can increase with time.
In this exercise, we are encouraged to recall our childhood memories, focus on the good times, and capture the feelings associated with each one.
For example:
A picnic at the beach with the family
led to …
Joy: the sheer happiness of spending quality time with family and playing in the sand or water
Nostalgia: recalling fond memories of past beach picnics and shared family traditions
Serenity: the calming effect of the ocean waves and the gentle sea breeze
Gratitude: appreciating the opportunity to connect with family members and nature
Excitement: anticipating fun activities like building sandcastles, swimming, or flying kites
Contentment: enjoying a delicious picnic meal together while surrounded by the picturesque beach setting
Understanding Emotions
Life is unpredictable, and the emotions we experience are often unexpected.
Learning to recognize each emotion and talk about it can improve our ability to be vulnerable and form deep connections.
For the chosen event, the individual selects how the situation made them feel for a range of emotions, including:
Positive ones
Happy
Excited
Content
Pleased
Certain
Negative ones
Anxious
Apprehensive
Angry
Afraid
The completed form can be reviewed to understand and share the emotions felt during and after the event and increase emotional awareness and intelligence.
Skills for Regulating Emotions
We tend to pay attention to what’s gone wrong, rather than right.
Through conscious effort, it is possible to draw attention away from negative and toward positive emotions and incorporate more enjoyable events and activities into our daily schedule.
The worksheet uses the following questions to fact-check situations:
- What happened that gave rise to this emotion?
- What am I assuming about this experience, or what explanations am I giving myself?
- Are my feelings proportionate to the reality of these circumstances? Or are they more related to my assumptions and interpretations?
Fact-checking is a technique for bringing intense (usually negative) emotions back under control.
A Take-Home Message
Positive emotions are more than momentary good feelings; they offer us new ways of thinking, improved problem-solving, boosted creativity, and increased wellbeing.
We can see the benefits in our personal and professional lives, putting us in a place where we can better take advantage of the opportunities that arise.
Equally crucial for our wellbeing, positive emotions are essential for building and maintaining robust and satisfying relationships. They strengthen our abilities to form initial connections while creating an environment for maintaining closeness.
Regularly experiencing emotions such as joy, gratitude, curiosity, and hope also protects us from many of the ill effects associated with negative emotions, such as stress and depression.
Positive emotions play a vital role in positive psychology. As such, they should form a central position in therapy and counseling styles that focus on client flourishing, beyond treatment of poor mental health.
If positive emotions aren’t already a focus in your existing therapy or coaching, it could be time well spent. They will build the psychological capital and resilience to support your clients as they create goal-driven, engaging lives aligning with their values.
We hope you enjoyed reading this article. Don’t forget to download our three Emotional Intelligence Exercises for free.
Ed: Updated April 2023
What our readers think
it is important to always use positive reinforcement.
Emotion is spontaneous overflow of feelings. Positive emotion directs the feelings to bring happiness. It is a state of mind having lower negative energy. Anger, anxiety on the other hand enhance chaos in mind and cause negative energy to increase. What does it mean to be happy? Study yourself. Find how much irritation can you absorb? If you remain calm in disturbance, positive emotions are working. Self-study is good to understand emotions, positive and negative.
I liked the article. It is informative.
As I choose joy on purpose, I become contagious to others. Also as I am encouraged, I encourage others.
I value contentedness it’s a place of peace. I create a plan for what I can control and I pray and leave my request with God for things out of control. At that point I am content know it’s going to be ok.
Hello, it is helpful , but also i want some journal articles on positive emotions, where can i get it from ?
Hello Divya
May I suggest you go through the reference section? There is an extensive selection of resources which could guide you further.
Thank you.
The role as well as the power of emotions can’t be underestimated in the life of humans and it could be easily understood with this famous thought of Vincent Van Gogh – “Let’s not forget that the little emotions are the great captains of our lives and we obey them without realizing it.”
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I have added more positivity in my life by starting the “Make Positivity Louder Movement”. I started on Feb. 13, 2017, by making a positivity video every day and posting it on social media. I have done over 470 positivity videos and facilitate 7-day Make Positivity Louder Challenges for the online community.
This journey has helped me get out a dark place in my own life and now I’m striving to provide a space and tools for others to do the same.
Very interesting article.
Positive emotions positively affect not only individuals, but also can change an atmosphere and efficiency of business organizations.
Positive emotions are able to increase ENGAGEMENT, COMMUNICATION, COOPERATION, QUALITY OF RELATIONS in Business areas and in effect increase level of efficiency and income.
From my perspective positive emotions are very important in process of mindset changes during the coaching & therapy process
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Hello Dr. Ramakrishna I am glad you found this article resourceful and hope you stop by again soon.