Gratitude Journal: A Collection of 67 Templates, Ideas, and Apps for Your Diary

Gratitude Journal: 67 Templates, Ideas, and Apps for Your DiaryGratitude is like most desirable traits and qualities in that it is usually not enough to simply decide to be grateful—we must actively practice it to cement its place in our lives.

There are many reasons why gratitude is such a desirable quality, aside from its inherent goodness. As we recently wrote in a piece on the benefits of gratitude, performing simple daily acts of gratitude can have a big impact on your health and happiness.

These effects are particularly evident in the practice of gratitude journaling. It only takes a few minutes a day, but it can give you a lasting mood boost that can take you from feeling “okay” to feeling “great” on a more regular basis.

If you’re wondering what a gratitude journal is or how you can jump on the journaling train, read ahead to learn everything you need to know about keeping a gratitude journal!

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What is a Gratitude Journal?

A gratitude journal is, quite simply, a tool to keep track of the good things in life. No matter how difficult and defeating life can sometimes feel, there is always something to feel grateful for.

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.

– John F. Kennedy

Even more than that, regularly journaling about the good things in your life can help prepare and strengthen you to deal with the rough patches when they pop up.

It’s extremely simple to start: simply write down (or type) the things you are grateful for on a daily basis. You can use a journal, diary, notebook, or just a piece of paper. If you’re committed to being green or just find it easier to do things digitally, you can use one of the many gratitude apps or even a simple Word document!

Once you have your journal or app ready, simply start noting the things you are grateful for.

Got a promotion? Journal it!

Mastered a new yoga move? Journal it!

Received good news about a potential health problem? You guessed it—journal it!

It can that easy. In case you’re wondering “What will this practice do for me?” read on to learn about the potential benefits of this simple practice.

 

Benefits of a Gratitude Journal

We’ve already written about the benefits of a regular gratitude practice, but here are a few benefits people have noticed when practicing gratitude journaling in particular:

  • Gratitude journaling, like many gratitude practices, can lower your stress levels;
  • It can help you feel calmer, especially at night;
  • Journaling can give you a new perspective on what is important to you and what you truly appreciate in your life;
  • By noting what you are grateful for, you can gain clarity on what you want to have more of in your life, and what you can do without;
  • Gratitude journaling can help you find out and focus on what really matters to you;
  • Keeping a gratitude journal helps you learn more about yourself and become more self-aware;
  • Your gratitude journal is for your eyes only, so you can write anything you feel without worrying about judgment from others;
  • On days when you feel blue, you can read through your gratitude journal to readjust your attitude and remember all the good things in your life (Jessen, 2015).

A yoga enthusiast at Yoganonymous.com wrote about seven of the benefits he noticed when gratitude journaling:

  1. It can make you more mindful, helping you to become more grounded and also making it easier to notice even more things you are grateful for;

  2. Gratitude journaling can help you feel more balanced and less thrown off by daily stress;

  3. You may notice that a lot more small, good things are happening—or maybe you’ll notice the small, good things that were already happening;

  4. Your gratitude might act as a beacon to good things and good people, drawing even more positive things to be grateful for to you;

  5. It can make you feel accomplished, even if it’s a relatively small accomplishment. We all need a win, no matter how big or small, every now and then;

  6. Beware—it might just make you more giving and generous to others! But don’t worry, it isn’t always about money; paradoxically, there are things that actually grow and increase when we give them away, like compassion, empathy, and laughter;

  7. Gratitude journaling can provide a sense of context or interconnectedness. It can remind us how things in life are connected to one another, and guide us to one of those rare moments in which we truly recognize that the word is so much bigger than us, yet we are grateful just to be a small part of it (Pope, 2016).

If you’re the kind of person who wants that hard evidence in addition to accounts of personal experience, there are studies that back these observations:

  • A brand new study of a three-month trial of gratitude journaling found that both reflective (finding things to be grateful for) and reflective-behavioral (finding things to be grateful for and expressing your gratitude) journaling have a significant, positive impact on well-being, affect, and depression (O’Connell, O’Shea, & Gallagher, 2017);

  • Another brand new study showed that Turkish freshmen who completed a three-week gratitude journal experienced greater gratitude, better adjustment to university life, higher life satisfaction, and enhanced positive affect, compared to a control group of freshmen (Işık & Ergüner-Tekinalp, 2017);

  • Gratitude journaling has been shown to help divorced parents forgive their ex-spouse(s), an extremely important step towards positive co-parenting (Rye, Fleri, Moore, Worthington, Wade, Sandage, & Cook, 2012);

  • Finally, gratitude researchers in Australia found evidence that gratitude journaling helped school leaders foster a balanced view of the good and bad things that happen at school, use more appreciative problem solving, find value in school-based relationships, and experience more positive emotion, ultimately making them better and happier leaders (Waters & Stokes, 2015).

So, gratitude journaling seems like it has a lot of potential upsides and no noticeable downsides. But how does it differ from writing in any old diary or journal?

 

What is the Difference Between a Gratitude Journal, Planner, Diary, and Notebook?

What is the Difference Between a Gratitude Journal, Planner, Diary, and Notebook?The main difference between a gratitude journal and other similar items, like planners, diaries, and notebooks, is the focus of the action:

  • Gratitude journaling focuses on what you are grateful for;
  • Filling out a planner focuses on what you need to do;
  • A diary’s focus is on what happened in your day;
  • Notebooks are for taking notes about the present, or future events, to help you remember important points.

Each item has a place and a purpose, but for the most part, they are not interchangeable.

Organizing your week ahead with a planner may incidentally give you things to look forward to and be grateful for, but chances are there will be some events or responsibilities you are NOT so grateful for in your planner.

Likewise, you will probably write down both positive and negative events from your day in a diary, meaning that the focus is not solely on what is good or helpful in your life. Finally, a notebook generally includes value-neutral notes and reminders, rather than lists of the good things in your life.

The gratitude journal is unique in this respect—it is the only item in the range of similar notebooks, planners, and journals that are solely dedicated to noticing and appreciating the positive things in your life. To get the maximum out of your gratitude journaling practice, try to keep it this way.

It’s not inherently bad to write down the negative things that happened or the challenges you faced during your day, but unless you are grateful for it, don’t write it down in your gratitude journal. Keeping your gratitude journal a place for only grateful thoughts will help you realize the benefits of a regular gratitude practice.

 

Ideas for Items in Your Gratitude Log

Benefits of a Gratitude JournalYour gratitude journal or log is a personal endeavor that must be unique to you and your life.

No one can tell you what makes the cut for you and your particular circumstances, but there are some suggestions that might help if you’re struggling in the beginning.

Brianna Steinhilber of everup.com drafted a list of 20 gratitude prompts that can get you writing about all the things you have to be grateful for. If you’re stuck at the start, at least a few of these prompts should be able to kickstart your gratitude creativity:

  • List five small ways that you can share your gratitude today.
  • Write about a person in your life that you’re especially grateful for and why.
  • What skills or abilities are you thankful to have?
  • What is there about a challenge you’re experiencing right now that you can be thankful for?
  • How is where you are in life today different than a year ago–and what positive changes are you thankful for?
  • What activities and hobbies would you miss if you were unable to do them?
  • List five body parts that you’re grateful for and why.
  • What about the city you live in are you grateful for?
  • What are you taking for granted about your day to day that you can be thankful for?
  • List 5 people in your life who are hard to get along with—and write down at least one quality for each that you are grateful for.
  • What materialistic items are you most grateful for?
  • Write about the music you’re thankful to be able to listen to and why.
  • Who has done something this week to help you or make your life easier and how can you thank them?
  • What foods or meals are you most thankful for?
  • What elements of nature are you grateful for and why?
  • What part of your morning routine are you most thankful for?
  • Write a letter to someone who has positively impacted your life, however big or small.
  • What is something you’re grateful to have learned this week?
  • When was the last time you laughed uncontrollably—relive the memory.
  • What aspects of your work environment are you thankful for (Steinhilber, 2015)?

If you’re looking for some more specific examples of the items others list in their gratitude journals, check out Oprah’s five items from her personal gratitude journal on October 12, 1996:

  1. A run around Florida’s Fisher Island with a slight breeze that kept me cool;
  2. Eating cold melon on a bench in the sun;
  3. A long and hilarious chat with Gayle about her blind date with Mr. Potato Head;
  4. Sorbet in a cone, so sweet that I literally licked my finger;
  5. Maya Angelou calling to read me a new poem (Winfrey, n.d.).

Since we can’t all be friends with fabulous and inspiring celebrities, here are a few other example items for a gratitude journal:

  • The sunrise this morning during your early run or while getting ready for the day;
  • A quick text from a loved one simply checking in on you;
  • The feeling of slipping into bed with freshly washed sheets;
  • Having enough to feed yourself and put a roof over your head;
  • Your stress ball, which is so good at calming you down during tense or important phone calls;
  • The strawberries you had for lunch today, in the sweet spot between soft and firm;
  • Your child’s smile as you tuck them into bed;
  • Your Pandora or Spotify playlist that so often plays exactly the song you needed to hear;
  • The groceries your significant other brought home from the store (even if they forgot something!);
  • The sound of rain falling on your window at night, calming and relaxing you.

While jumping right in and thinking about what you can write in your gratitude journal is an exciting part of the journey, it can get somewhat less exciting as time goes on. On those days when you no longer feel pumped to write down what you are grateful for, it’s good to be prepared.

These tips for maintaining a gratitude journal can help. Lauren Jessen of the Huffington Post blog has these suggestions:

  1. Plan to write in your gratitude journal every night for 15 minutes before bed. Set an alarm reminder on your phone or schedule it in your calendar. I’ve found that it is easier to write at night so that I can include things that I am grateful for from that day.

  2. Keep your gratitude journal by your nightstand so you will see it before going to sleep and remember to jot down what you are thankful for. Your journal may even become a symbol of gratitude so that when you just look at it, you will feel a sense of appreciation.

  3. Write as many things as you want in your gratitude journal. Writing down 5-10 things that you are grateful for each day is a good number to aim for.

  4. Your gratitude journal doesn’t have to be deep. What you are thankful for can be as simple as “family” or “the new book or movie I recently enjoyed” or “this morning’s breakfast.” What you are grateful for will differ from everyone else (find a list of gratitude books here).

  5. The timing of when you want to write is up to you. While I try to write in my gratitude journal every night, sometimes it becomes every other night. That’s okay. Journal when it feels right for you—the benefits really are worth it. (Jessen, 2015)

Creating a gratitude journal has even become popular enough for its own “WikiHow” page! For step-by-step directions on how to keep a gratitude journal, you can visit the page here.

Finally, I came upon a set of tips for making sure you are getting everything you can out of your gratitude journal practice. Keep these in mind when journaling, and there should be no obstacle in your way that can stop you!

  • Don’t just go through the motions—be conscious about your new “attitude of gratitude.”

  • Don’t set a minimum number of things to be grateful for every day—aiming for five things is fine, but accept that there will be some days when you need to gift yourself understanding and flexibility.

  • Don’t wait for the “right time.” It’s fine to write something early in the day.

  • Elaborate on why you are grateful for the things you write down. This can help you understand what is truly important to you and what you can cut out of your life.

  • Focus on people rather than things. It’s okay to be thankful for your smartphone or your car, but the joy you receive from important relationships likely dwarfs your fondness for electronics.
  • Don’t rush through the process—try to savor the act of journaling.

  • Include surprises in your list. Surprises can provoke a greater emotional response than planned activities and can be excellent to look back on when you’re feeling stuck in the rut of routine.

  • Keep the negative out of your journal. As we mentioned earlier, the focus on what is good sets the gratitude journal apart from other forms of journaling, note-taking, and diary-writing—try to keep it that way!

  • Variety is the spice of life! Try to list new things as much as possible.

  • Be creative—even if you don’t think you’re creative. Feel like adding a picture of your significant other instead of making them into a single line? Do it!

  • Give it a chance. The common wisdom is that it takes three weeks to establish a new habit, so aim for at least three weeks of daily journaling before making any judgments. The only thing you stand to lose if you don’t take to gratitude journaling is a few minutes a day—hardly a huge loss (Jensen, n.d.).

Armed with these tips, examples, and guidelines, hopefully, you will find it easy to begin and maintain a gratitude journal! Now all you need to do is find the format that works for you.

 

The Gratitude Bullet Journal

While many people who regularly practice gratitude journaling prefer to separate their gratitude by day or week, others like the final product when listing things they are grateful for in one big block for each month.

This format is referred to as the gratitude “bullet” journal since each thing you are grateful for can be represented as one bullet point in the monthly block. Many who prefer bullet journals still keep these bullets organized by day, although they tend to use the day of the month rather than the day of the week (i.e., “15” rather than “Tuesday the 15th”).

For an example of the gratitude bullet journal, see the pictures below.

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Many who extoll the benefits of the gratitude bullet journal recommend listing one thing, or at least one thing, you are grateful for each day, which may make it easier to start if you are struggling to come up with five items each day.

Whether you choose a more traditional log of gratitude or a gratitude bullet journal, what’s important is that you commit to feeling grateful every day and stick with it!

Decorating your journal or adding a personal touch or other stylistic flairs can help you stay motivated, so don’t be afraid to get creative. This journal is for you and only you, so do whatever works for you!

 

Writing a Gratitude Essay

What is a Gratitude Journal?A gratitude essay is a step further than gratitude journaling—it takes more time, more effort, and more pages.

However, it can have a profound impact on your perspective and spur you to be more mindful and grateful of the good things in your life.

Respected researcher and Journal of Positive Psychology editor Robert Emmons describes his assignment of a gratitude essay as follows:

“Some years ago, I asked people with debilitating physical illnesses to compose a narrative concerning a time when they felt a deep sense of gratitude to someone or for something. I asked them to let themselves re-create that experience in their minds so that they could feel the emotions as if they had transported themselves back in time to the event itself. I also had them reflect on what they felt in that situation and how they expressed those feelings” (Emmons, 2013).

A gratitude essay is a declaration, a reflection, and an acknowledgment of what you have to be grateful for and, indirectly, who you are. The occasion that you think back to and your reaction to this reflection can reveal a lot about who you are and what you value.

For example, if you look back with deep gratitude on something your mother did for you, full to the brim with self-sacrificing love, you will likely find that you place immense value on family and close relationships with loved ones.

If you reflect back on a helping hand from a teacher, you might be the sort of person who greatly values mentoring, compassion, or the “pay it forward” mentality.

The point is that writing a gratitude essay is not just a great way to acknowledge and reflect on some of the most important or defining moments of gratitude in your life, it is also a way to learn about yourself.

With that in mind, grab a pen or a keyboard, get to thinking about something you are grateful for, and prepare yourself to learn!

 

Printable Journal Templates

Ideas for Items in Your Gratitude LogThere are countless templates out there for you to base your gratitude journal on.

To save you the time of looking through hundreds of templates, I narrowed it down to five different printable templates you can use for your own journal.

Of course, if none of these fit your personal style, there are many others just a few clicks away. As always, find what works for you!

 

The Grateful Journal

This template is intended for those who would like to meld their gratitude practice with their religious or spiritual beliefs. If you are not looking for mentions of a specific religious figure or deity, continue on for more templates!

 

Gratitude Journal

For a bare-bones design that you can keep neat and uncluttered (or doodle in the margins—your choice!), try the gratitude journal worksheet from therapistaid.com. This worksheet includes space to list five things you are grateful for each day of the week (Monday through Sunday), as well as a space at the end to note the highlights of your week.

 

Gratitude Journal, Four Parts

Gratitude WorksheetThis is a different design than we have discussed so far, but it’s a fun one!

It splits the sheet into four parts, with a part dedicated to morning gratitude (listing things you are grateful for right at the beginning of your day), one corner for writing down what you are learning from challenges in your life, one part to list the people you are most grateful for today, and the final piece dedicated to describing the best part of your day.

This is a fun and unique way to make every day a gratitude-filled one!

 

Gratitude Bullet Points

If you’re partial to the bullet points style, you may like this template. It includes four separate week columns with space for three things you are grateful for each day.

One nice thing about this template is that you can start your week on whichever day works for you since the days are labeled “Day 1” through “Day 7” instead of Sunday through Monday.

 

Gratitude Journal, Etsy

If you feel like supporting an independent business owner, there is a great template available for purchase on Etsy.

This instant download is under $10 and includes space to note what you are grateful for each day of the week as well as space to explain why you are grateful for each item. They also have other versions that you may be partial to. Head on over to support a crafty individual and begin your gratitude journey at the same time!

 

5 Gratitude Journal Apps That Can Help

As with most problems or tasks in life, there is now an app for that!

If you prefer the feel of a touchscreen over a pen in your hand, there are plenty of apps that support your daily gratitude practice.

 

Gratitude / Bliss Journal

For example, the Gratitude Journal or Bliss Journal is an old standby in the area of gratitude journal apps. It is available for Android devices and takes up only a tiny sliver of your phone’s memory. Best of all, it’s free to install!

If you’re looking for an app that will guide you through your daily gratitude practice with helpful exercises and prompts, click here to learn more about or download this app.

 

Gratitude Journal

mojo gratitude app
Mojo

This Gratitude Journal app is available for download from iTunes, with versions that are compatible with the iPhone and iPad.

This app will only set you back about 45 MB of space, but it packs a powerful punch. It aims for a distraction-free and easy-to-use interface, with easy scrolling and syncing on all iOS devices.

Bonus points—it also uses little heart symbols to track what you are grateful for each day! To see the hearts for yourself or download this app, click here.

 

Mojo

Mojo adds a few fun features to the typical gratitude journal app, including adding pictures, emojis, and organizing by the calendar. This fun and easy app can even import your entries from the Gratitude app to keep all of your gratitude synced!

This app, marketed as “more than a journal”, can be found on iTunes. It seems that the app is currently struggling to find a home page for downloading, but you can learn more about it here.

 

Gratitude 365 Pro

This gratitude journal app is available for iPhone and allows the user to incorporate photos, track their journaling by day, and organize with email, Facebook, Twitter, or Flickr calendar.

It’s all in the name with this app, so give it a try if you plan on adding gratitude to your daily practice, 365 days a year! You can read more about it or download it here.

 

Day One

Another app for iPhone, iPad, and Mac users, Day One helps you keep a digital diary complete with pictures, maps, and notes about your day. This app can cut across devices, presenting you with the same look and format for each platform.

While this app is intended for more of a diary or daily journal purpose, it is easy to use it for tracking your gratitude. You can find it for Mac at $9.99 or for iPhone and iPad at $4.99 in the iTunes store. Click here to learn more about this app.

 

A Take-Home Message

Starting up a new hobby or practice can be difficult, especially when it’s a practice that can dig up some pretty intense feelings. Don’t be alarmed if you find it to be a difficult, overwhelming, or highly emotional experience at first. Try to lean into the discomfort and keep your commitment to daily gratitude, because greater peace and contentment lie on the other side!

Have fun with your gratitude journal, and remember to make it uniquely “you!”

Have you ever practiced regular gratitude journaling? Are you currently keeping a gratitude journal? Do you have any tips or tricks to avoid some common distractions or difficulties? Let us know in the comments!

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About the Author

Courtney Ackerman, MSc., is a graduate of the positive organizational psychology and evaluation program at Claremont Graduate University. She is currently working as a researcher for the State of California and her professional interests include survey research, well-being in the workplace, and compassion.

Comments

  1. Zulaihat Abdullahi

    Thank you for posting this 😊. I am filled with negativity and finding a way to get rid of it through a gratitude journal and I thank God that I found your site. I will come back in a week to write down my progress. (God willing).

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  2. misty arterburn

    Thank you. I found your article while looking how to curb my death anxiety and this idea seems lovely. I’ve think I will also have my children do this. What a blessing it will be to grow up with this mindset instead of the stress and negativity we all know too well.

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  3. Deepa

    Thank you for this beautiful article. I read every bit of it and its necessary for every individual on earth to be grateful for everything we have. Loads of positive vibes upon reading this.

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    • Nicole Celestine

      Hi Deepa,
      So glad this post resonated with you. Thanks for being a reader.
      – Nicole | Community Manager

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  4. Patrick Obolgogiani

    Thank you Courtney! We’ve taken a slightly different approach with Growth Journal app, trying to combine gratitude with intention, in essence balancing happiness with pursuit for more. Would love your thoughts on how to make it more effective for those seeking mental health!

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  5. Matt K

    This article is incredibly helpful! I love to see the research mixed in with practical tips because gratitude journaling has so much positive psychology research behind it. Another wonderful app to try out for iPhone and Android is Happyfeed – a free gratitude journal with some extra features like daily throwbacks and monthly reviews: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/happyfeed/id707073943
    I’ve been building Happyfeed since 2013 and I’m always trying to make it easier to use and add more fun features 🙂

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    • Jill Macdonald

      Thanks Matt – have downloaded and started using this.

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  6. MaryRose Carlow

    I want to thank you for this article. I have been asked to present during the lenten season and gratitude was the first topic I want to address. Of course, I will give you credit for your topics listed because I find when giving someone an assignment it is easier to give them topics to think about. I love gratitude journals. I did this with my students for years and they too loved it. I would check them on a weekly basis and make little notes to them in the margins. Some took it very seriously and others not so much but at least they were thinking. God’s blessing to you.

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  7. Daljeet Singh

    I was just about to start my gratitude journal and looking for some ideas and then I found this article which is amazingly written, I thankful for this.

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  8. Call Center Solutions

    am really happy to say it’s an interesting post to read .
    Thanks & Regards,

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  9. Stan

    Great article, i am thankful for your writing:)
    Regards,

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  10. Joe

    Thanks for the comprehensive article. I have long suffered from a variety of cognitive distortions alongside depression. I have tried to start a journal like this multiple times to help with that but have found myself in a bit of a paradox. Because of the afflictions I am trying to address by doing this journaling I find the journaling difficult and often devalue it or simply don’t really feel (in my heart of hearts) and gratitude. That or it gets kind of repetitive as I struggle for things to say. For example I might write one day I am grateful for my pets, but after writing that for X days in a row it just drives home how little else there is. Is this a paradox?

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    • Bri

      That’s because you’re trying to recall all the blessings in your life every time you journal… that’s too much, too repetitive, and too inauthentic… don’t write down that you’re grateful for your pet unless something THAT DAY having to do with your pet brought you joy, or should have brought you joy if you were aware enough to acknowledge it. If you’re depressed you could also write all your successes for the day, like if brushing your teeth is a mini victory for that day (if depression affects you that way)… but I don’t recommend this because it’s hyperfocused on you which can have the adverse effect you’re thinking of, as opposed to the blessings that came your way, like the oddly good weather or the delicious food you ate… you don’t have to FEEL happy or grateful about what you write in the beginning, just write what is objectively good and EVENTUALLY you’ll start to feel lighter over time because you’ll start to take notice of the good things that happen throughout the day in the moment, instead of having to recall them upon reflection at the end of the day. Once something looks like a “journal moment” and you catch yourself realizing it, your attitude will begin to shift with it.

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  11. N

    1. Grateful for this wonderful article. Love and light.

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  12. Mary Rose

    Very informative article with so many wonderful ideas, how-to’s and resources. I have a beautiful journal and now I’m equipped to begin a positive spiritual journey. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

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  13. Pat Mihm

    Starting today and it is all new to me. Got some ideas from just reading above.

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  14. Tyra Buffett

    My daughter is 12 and just over a year ago she began to develop a negative attitude that wreaked of some type of entitlement. We had a few heart-to-hearts and decided on a daily gratitude exercise. The turn-around has been wonderful. We tried out several prompted journals, but with her creativity, I wanted a more open-ended approach. The journal she settled on was called “My.. Today, I’m grateful for… Gratitude Journal.” She is on her 5th or 6th journal…sometimes filling up several days worth of pages at at time. If anyone is interested, it’s on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/1796705853
    I am in no way spamming this..you can see it’s not a link for a commission or anything like that…just a direct link to the journal. It is a simple yet powerful tool that has improved my daughter’s outlook, attitude…really everything.
    Thanks.
    I don’t have a website to put in the box below, so I will put the link to the journal, if that’s ok. Thanks again.

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  15. Nat

    Tank you for sharing:). Gratitude journaling has helped focus me on the positive influences in my life. I feel amazingly!!

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  16. Peter Schneider

    Wonderful ideas!

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  17. lê thị ngọc mai

    i used “journal it” for journaling.it works flawlessly with a lot of function that i really need (to-do list, gratitude journal, notes, diary, habit tracker, mood tracker, …..).it is the best app that i have ever experienced.

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  18. Kari | The Gorgeous Mindset Co.

    So many great ideas here! I started keeping a gratitude journal a few years ago simply to offset all of the negativity in my life at the time. Instead of focusing on the things I lacked, I intentionally wrote about the good things in my life that I appreciated (both big and small). I prefer to use a good ole’pen and paper journal, but I also like the idea of using a gratitude app. It’s something I will definitely try in the future. Thanks for sharing all this awesomeness! xo

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  19. Joan William

    I need a help please can you give me insight into what developmental Templates in Journal ling looks like

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  20. Carolin

    Hi Courtney,
    thank you so much for putting this together. I think it’s important to know that gratitude is a choice and you can practice it to become happier and more content. I loved going through Oprah’s five items in your post. And yes, it’s the small things that count. It doesn’t have to be epic.
    It has helped me a lot and I have put together a 30 Day Gratitude Challenge with free gratitude journal and prompts to help others get started.
    Thanks again and all the best!
    Carolin @ Mom Can Do This

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  21. Aqeel

    Great article!…. I learned a lot from it.

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  22. Sandy

    I copied most of this article in my new Gratitude Journal to reference back to as I start this new endeavor. In the last 4 months my life has gone from steady and routine to total chaos! My husband of 30 years died, I sold my house the day after he died and had to move, and in one month I retire from teaching after 23 years. It has been extremely difficult and I realize that my focus has been nearly all negative. So thank you for your guidance in trying to turn my thinking to create the life I need and deserve!

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    • Yashica Geter

      Sandy, your post touched my heart so much. I empathize with you and sincerely hope at this point you’re in a better place in your life. I too am struggling and am stuck with a lot of resentment and negative energy. I’m a victim of Military Sexual Assault from a Colonel who was a mentor to me. Although it was extremely challenging, I decided to file charges and start an investigation against him. The investigation came back in my favor but they allowed him to retire with full benefits. Now the Army is saying that I have PTSD from the assault, which I do, but they’re not willing to wait for me to finish the therapy needed for me to heal so I’m being medically retired. I have 18 years of service. I only need 2 more years to get my full retirement. So, I have a lot of resentment and anger I’m trying to heal from. I was told gratitude was the best way to do it. I also saved this article. I will be praying for the both of us. If you’d like a penpal, please email at yashicageter@gmail.com. Take care.

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    • Fran

      Sandy, I just came across this this morning. I hope you are doing much better. If you are religious and attend a church, ask your pastor if he/she knows of someone who is a good counselor. Maybe your pastor has a degree in counseling or psychology. If you’re not religious, your local hospitals should be able to refer you to some good grief groups (they are not at all what you might suspect — yes, there are tears but there is also laughter). Regardless of what you may think, you need some support and help. I lost my daughter when she was 28, 20 years ago. I was already in counseling prior to her death. I don’t know what I would have done without my counselor. I don’t believe we can create the life we think we need and deserve. Usually whatever The Universe gives us is so much better than what we could imagine. I truly wish you well.

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  23. Gill

    I see ao many of these journals coming through dor children now. I am keen to explore with my class but to buy such journals are bery expensive. Do you know of any great places I could download a diary type template to use.
    Your ideas are inspirational. Thank you

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  24. Q

    MoodSpace is a beautiful Android App. It’s free. Comes with a reminder for the 3 things/paragraphs you can write in thought bubbles. Plus: an opportunity to “challenge warpy thoughts” and explore them in writing

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  25. kuldeep

    Thank you, ma’am, for the tidbit of information.. 🙂

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    • Courtney Ackerman

      Thanks for sharing this great resource, Erran!

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  26. Marcy Schveibinz

    Thank you so much for this information for starting a gratitude practice. I am a Nutrition and Wellness Coach and I encourage my clients to post in our communication what they were thankful for each day. Many don’t follow through with this, but now I have some info on the variety of benefits it offers and some guidelines to offer them for prompts, so I will promote this practice more with them. I think it will tie in nicely with their posts about their daily behavioral successes.

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    • Courtney Ackerman

      That’s great to hear, Marcy! Thank you for your comment.

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  27. Amel A.

    Love your post!! Thank you very much.

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    • Courtney Ackerman

      Amel, I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for letting us know.

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  28. Carol Gordon Ekster

    Love this post! I saved it to my gratitude Pinterest board. I believe in the power of gratitude. And you have much here to help people start their own habit. Imagine how much sweeter the world would be if we children learn gratitude early. That’s why I wrote the children’s book, BEFORE I SLEEP: I SAY THANK YOU, Pauline Books and Media, 2015. It offers a kid-friendly way to teach small children the importance of gratitude. The book ends asking the children to say five things they are grateful for.
    Here’s the book’s trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qbf_KXG73HY Keep spreading the gifts of gratitude!

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    • Courtney Ackerman

      Thanks for the recommendation, Carol!

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      • Carol Gordon Ekster

        Thank you, Courtney!

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  29. Rene Askanazi

    Great ideas that work!

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    • Courtney Ackerman

      That’s our goal! 🙂

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