How to Practice Meditation to Reduce Stress
Now, we’ll examine how to actually practice meditation with the aim of reducing stress.
1. Meditation Posture
Your first concern when beginning a meditation practice is figuring out how to position your body.
You want to be comfortable, but you also want to be sure your posture is contributing to the right frame of mind.
Meditation can be practiced sitting, standing, crouching, kneeling, or in just about any other position. The position does not matter as much as the fundamentals.
To make sure your posture is conducive to successful meditating, refer to this list:
- Your spine should be upright, following its natural tendency to be slightly hollowed;
- You should neither be slumped nor have an exaggerated hollow in your lower spine;
- Your spine should be relaxed;
- Your shoulders should be relaxed, and slightly rolled back and down;
- Your hands should be supported, either resting on a cushion or on your lap so that your arms are relaxed;
- Your head should be balanced evenly, with your chin slightly tucked in;
- The back of your neck should be relaxed, long, and open;
- Your face should be relaxed, with your brow smooth, your eyes relaxed, your jaw relaxed, and your tongue relaxed and just touching the back of your teeth (Wildmind, 2007).
Preparation:
Next, prepare your breath. This exercise does not manipulate the breath in any way, but it can help to take a few deep breaths to prepare for the meditation.
Stage One:
After you are prepared, move into the first stage by counting your breath. Do not attempt to change your breath, just count.
Use this counting method: one inhale, one exhale, count.
Continue counting your breath for about five minutes. If you find your mind wandering, gently bring it back to the sensation of breathing.
Stage Two:
The next stage of breathing meditation is essentially the same as the first stage, except you count your inhales instead of your exhales. This is a slight change that can lead to a distinctly different experience.
For this stage, use this counting method: count, one inhale, one exhale.
As with the previous stage, count for at least a few minutes, gently bringing your mind back to your breath when it inevitably gets mischievous.
Stage Three:
Instead of counting, simply allow your breath to come naturally, and pay attention to the sensations of breathing. Focus specifically on the transitions from inhale to exhale and back again, since these transitions are when you are most likely to get distracted. Try to see breathing as a continuous process rather than a series of inhales and exhales.
Stage Four:
This stage calls for a narrowing of your awareness. Try to focus on how you are feeling as you breathe. Notice the tiny sensations that come with each breath, like the slight breeze on your lip from each breath, or the feel of air moving down your throat and into your lungs (Wildmind, 2007).
Meditation Exercise for Countering Anger
Metta Bhavana, or loving-kindness meditation, can be a useful tool to counter chronic anger. It involves learning to cultivate patience, kindness, acceptance, and compassion for ourselves.
You can prepare for practicing loving-kindness meditation by cultivating emotional awareness.
- Sit quietly and bring your awareness to your body, relaxing each muscle as you go;
- Bring your awareness to your heart and see what emotions are there;
- Pay attention to your thoughts if you need clues as to the emotions you are experiencing;
- Try to reserve judgment of yourself;
- Don’t berate yourself for feeling negative emotions. Try to be kind and patient with yourself.
To begin loving-kindness meditation, assume your usual meditation posture. You will work through this meditation in five stages.
- In the first stage, you cultivate loving-kindness toward yourself. Try to become aware of the emotions you are feeling, and, as noted above, do not judge them. Instead, show yourself compassion. Open your heart to yourself and accept what you are feeling. Extend a hand of friendship to yourself, and wish yourself well;
- In the second stage, expand this loving kindness to a good friend. Decide on the friend beforehand, so as not to waste any time during the meditation. If it helps, imagine that your friend is going through a difficult time and needs your support. Show them compassion and accept them for who they are;
- The third stage expands loving-kindness to a “neutral” person. Think of a person that you do not have an emotional connection with, someone who you neither like nor dislike. Extend your loving-kindness to this person. Wish them well, and offer them your acceptance, compassion, and kindness;
- The fourth stage is perhaps the most difficult stage, as it calls for cultivating loving-kindness for someone you do not already have kind thoughts or feelings toward. Think of someone who you have a difficult relationship with or someone you actively dislike. Now, begin the hard work of extending loving-kindness to this person. Try to let go of your tendencies to think badly of them, and wish them well. You can use a wish like, “May they be well, may they be happy, may they be free from suffering,” or any other wish you are comfortable with, but it must be positive (Wildmind, 2007);
- The fifth stage is the culmination of this practice. In this stage, we extend our loving-kindness to all sentient beings. Widen the circle of your loving-kindness to touch every being in the known universe. You can start with yourself, your friend, the neutral person, and the difficult person. Think of all four of you together, and wish all of you well. Avoid “playing favorites” with your friend, and try to wish all of you happiness and joy.
From here, widen your circle to include more friends, more neutral people, and more difficult people. Widen the circle again to include all friends, all neutral people you know, and all difficult people you know.
Continue this process until your circle includes all sentient beings, and wish for happiness and joy for all of them. One wish covering all sentient beings that I have heard is: “May all beings everywhere be happy and free.”
Feel free to use this wish, or invent your own to make it feel more personal.
MBSR Courses, Teacher Trainings, and Certification Programs
There are so many MBSR classes, programs, and trainings provided worldwide that it would be a monumental task to list them all here.
Instead, we’ll provide an overview of the resources available to those interested in MBSR.
MBSR Courses
Besides the flagship course at the Center for Mindfulness where MBSR was developed, there are other opportunities to participate in MBSR.
To find an in-person MBSR course near you, use the Center for Mindfulness’ search feature at this link. This search reveals MBSR teachers near you that are certified by the Center for Mindfulness to offer their MBSR course.
If you cannot find a certified teacher in your area or would like the convenience of taking the course online, there are two options outlined below.
1. Sounds True Course
The Sounds True website offers an online Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction course that follows the same method as the Center for Mindfulness, with the curriculum developed by Jon Kabat-Zinn.
The course is offered over eight weeks and is facilitated by Dr. Saki F. Santorelli, the director of the Stress Reduction Clinic and executive director of the Center for Mindfulness in Medicine, Health Care, and Society at the University of Massachusetts Medical School, along with Florence Meleo-Meyer, a longtime teacher of MBSR and member of the executive leadership team at the Center for Mindfulness (Sounds True, 2015).
The course is split into the following sections:
Orientation
The first session provides an overview of the history and development of MBSR.
Week One
The first week gives participants an overview of the course and presents the theory and evidence behind the idea of mind-body medicine. Participants will be introduced to some of the basics of MBSR, including mindful eating, mindful breathing, and the body scan.
Week Two
Week two opens participants up to the examination of their perceptions, assumptions, and the perspective they use to interact with the world around them. The session will revisit the body scan exercise and explore how participants react to stress.
Week Three
The third week brings a greater focus on the body, with hatha yoga, sitting meditation, and walking meditation. This session encourages participants to learn how to be present in the moment, as well as how to maintain this presence in their daily life.
Week Four
In week four, participants will learn about how the body reacts to stress and how mindfulness can mitigate or reverse these effects. They will also be introduced to strategies for applying a mindfulness practice to stressful situations.
Week Five
This session marks the halfway point in the course and expands on the concepts and techniques participants have learned so far. Participants will be encouraged to think about the situations in which they often get bogged down in unhealthy or self-defeating patterns of thought, emotion, and/or behavior. Additionally, they will be walked through some strategies for applying mindfulness to these situations before these self-defeating reactions set in.
Week Six
The focus of week six is on resilience, or productive coping strategies that course participants can put into effect when they face challenges. The session also covers interpersonal mindfulness, which applies to person-to-person communications, situations that can be accompanied by stress, anxiety, or other difficult emotions.
At over six hours, this session is longer than the others, and it provides participants with an opportunity to put the techniques they have learned into practice in a variety of situations.
Week Seven
The second-to-last week is all about how to integrate the practice of mindfulness into everyday life. Participants will learn how to maintain their growing practice and how to commit to non-judgment, awareness, and presence in the moment.
Week Eight
The program closes with a review of the course content, a focus on how to carry on practicing mindfulness, and an overview of the resources and support available for course graduates as they continue with their lives.
The course has a regular price tag of $297, although at the time of this posting, the course is offered at a special price of $197. To read reviews of the course, see the details of their 100% satisfaction guarantee, or to learn more about this course, visit the website at this link.
2. Palouse Mindfulness Course
Another online MBSR course is offered through Palouse Mindfulness by Dave Potter, a certified MBSR instructor who trained at the University of Massachusetts Medical School.
This course is modeled on Kabat-Zinn’s work, but the week-to-week content is not an exact copy of Kabat-Zinn’s work. To see a description of each session, follow this link and navigate through the session outlines on the left side of the page.
The main difference between the Palouse Mindfulness course and the Sounds True course is that this course is self-directed. As such, there are no costs associated with taking this course, although many of the potential benefits are the same.
To learn more about this course, see the introduction here or read the FAQ section here.
3. Other Online Mindfulness Courses
This post provides links to other mindfulness courses that you can take online to learn more about practicing mindfulness.
Although these are not specifically MBSR programs, these courses can be a great way to add mindfulness knowledge and techniques to your repertoire.
MBSR Training and Certification Programs
The Center for Mindfulness also offers MBSR training for professionals who want to learn how to lead an MBSR course of their own.
MBSR Teacher Education & Certification
This program consists of six courses, usually offered over 36 months, and culminates in an MBSR Teacher certification from the Center for Mindfulness.
The courses include MBSR in Mind-Body Medicine, MBSR Fundamentals, MBSR Practice Teaching Intensive, MBSR Group Supervision, MBSR Individual Supervision, and MBSR Teacher Certification.
Each course carries a different price tag. Some tuition assistance is offered, which you can learn about here.
Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Retreats
As noted above, some MBSR training programs require attendance at an MBSR retreat.
Several such retreats are offered, some for MBSR teachers and teachers in training only, and some for anyone who is interested in practicing MBSR.
- The Awareness and Relaxation Training website also provides information on upcoming MBSR retreats, which you can peruse here. These retreats are led by Steve Flowers, director of the Mindful Living Program at the Enloe Medical Center, and Dr. Bob Stahl, founder of several MBSR programs in the Bay Area and current director of the programs three California hospitals. Both of these professionals completed training with Jon Kabat-Zinn. The retreats are offered to a variety of health care professionals, including physicians, nurses, psychologists, and counselors.
- The Shambhala Mountain Center offers several MBSR-based retreats, which take place near the Rocky Mountains in Colorado. The retreat aims to provide a safe and nurturing environment where retreat attendees can find support and guidance from MBSR teachers and deepen their meditation practice. For a list of upcoming retreats, check the website.
What our readers think
Very interesting article on stress reduction. As stress creates a lot of problems and dealing with it becomes difficult. Thank you for sharing.
Hi, Thank you for this article which I gained alot from. However, I dont understand the difference in the counting/breathing pattern btwn Stage 1 and Stage 2 of 1. Meditation Posture above. I’ve followed the steps and tried practicing it but the pattern is the same. I’d be grateful for more information. Thank you.
Hi Ruth,
Glad you enjoyed the post. It’s a very subtle difference between Stage 1 and 2 which you can read about here and here, respectively. It’s difference between counting the out-breaths (Stage 1) versus counting the inhalations (Stage 2).
Hope this helps!
– Nicole | Community Manager
Good information. I know this is an older article, but a lot of your links do not work.
Hi Emily,
Glad you enjoyed the post. We are currently refreshing all the links in our older posts, so this should be fixed soon. 🙂
– Nicole | Community Manager
This article has helped to relieve stress and anxiety. Thank you
Phenomenal article! I’m taking a meditation based course at Michigan State University where we’re learning about mindfulness based stress reduction and how it affects the brain. This article a great supplement for everything we’re learning in class!
when was this article written? Thank you in advance 🙂