Spend time reviewing the completed diagram and consider what activity fits into the center, meeting each of the four circles’ criteria.
Finding your purpose
Much of our day is spent on autopilot. Often without thinking, we do as much as we can in our waking hours, only stopping to crash in front of the TV or get into bed.
Ikigai encourages us to focus on our overall life purpose and the “joy a person finds in living day-to-day” (Mitsuhashi, 2018).
Completing the following sentences may help you or your client become clearer regarding your life purpose and how you can better focus your time and energy:
- When I was a child, I loved doing…
- If money didn’t matter, I would be…
- If I believed I could not fail, I would…
- I completely lose track of time when I am…
- I am most happy with who I am when I…
- I am really good at…
- If I didn’t care what others thought of me, I would…
- In my free time, I love to…
- If I only had six months to live, I would spend my time…
- If I were to die tomorrow, I would regret that I did not…
- The following people inspire me because they…
Review the completed sentences, adding new ones when you think of them.
See the patterns that form and recognize the actions that accompany past activities and future plans.
Then finally, complete one further sentence:
- The purpose of my life is to…
Use the completed sentence to help consider and guide your future decisions. If, overall, you shape your life according to the purpose you have found, you will arrive at ikigai.
3 Online ikigai tests and services
There are tests available online that can help you find and develop your ikigai.
While some of the resources are free, there may be payment or membership required to receive additional advice and coaching.
- Ikigai Test – provides a set of online questions to understand your ikigai and your true purpose. It’s a 10-minute test that offers insight into a potential future career path.
- Ikigai Tribe – offers a podcast, online test, worksheets, and coaching service to help you find and develop your ikigai.
- People at Heart Coaching – completing the online ikigai questionnaire helps you find a career that makes you happy while building a sense of purpose, meaning, and wellbeing.
PositivePsychology.com’s Helpful Resources
- Read our article on Finding Your Ikigai with Worksheets as part of an ongoing self-reflection process to identify what you love, what the world needs, what you can get paid for, and what you are good at.
- Identifying Your Ikigai is a worksheet that triggers clients to think about certain elements of their lives, then answer a range of questions to help them find their ikigai.
- This Job Crafting worksheet can be used with clients who want to make changes to various aspects of their job so that they can appreciate them more.
- Meeting Needs With Reality Therapy helps clients understand their needs in life and what actions they could take to meet them.
- The Perma Model helps you understand the elements that promote happiness and what we can do to maximize each one.
- If you’re looking for more science-based ways to help others discover meaning, this collection contains 17 validated meaning tools for practitioners. Use them to help others choose directions for their lives in alignment with what is truly important to them.
A Take-Home Message
Finding our ikigai takes time and effort. After all, if it were easy, most of us would already have found the pleasures, meanings, and purpose within our lives (Mogi, 2018).
Yet, once we recognize and understand our ikigai, we have a starting point from which we can begin to make decisions and live according to our values and goals – a path to happiness.
And the effort is worthwhile. As Tim Tamashiro (2019) writes, “Ikigai is within reach of us all and can serve as a map to find and create purpose.”
Not only that, but there are clear and measurable benefits to our wellbeing, improving our outlook on life and offering protection from depression (Fido et al., 2019).
Yet, there is no magic formula.
Answering the questions within this article will help you find purpose and joy in daily living, but there is no single, easy change that makes everything fall into place.
Ultimately and most importantly, we must acquire sufficient self-knowledge to be able to complete the following two sentences:
“I feel ikigai when…”
“I feel ikigai toward…”
When we can provide a clear and complete (and personal) statement for each, we will be equipped to build ikigai into every stage of our existence. Then, at life’s end, we can look back with overall contentment and a clear sense of living according to our needs and wants (Mitsuhashi, 2018). Perhaps we will have lived more authentically and less driven by the values of others.
While there are no fast fixes, when it comes to ikigai, small changes can lead to profound transformation, over time, in our (or our clients’) lives. Indeed, as Tim Tamashiro (2019) says,
“when you put your finger on what your ikigai is, it’s like you gain a superpower […] a GPS for your life.”
There are several excellent ikigai books that can help you see ikigai from multiple perspectives, introducing simple yet far-reaching life changes and implementing ikigai. As Mitsuhashi (2018) describes it,
“ikigai is the action we take in pursuit of happiness.”
Once known, we can make more confident short- and long-term decisions, personally and professionally, creating a life with more purpose (Mitsuhashi, 2018).
And finally, according to Mitsuhashi, while having and feeling ikigai is unique to you and is a potential source of happiness, it is only available through action and not by merely waiting for it to happen.
We hope you enjoyed reading this article. Don’t forget to download our free ‘Finding Your Ikigai’ Exercise.
What our readers think
After watching a documentary about Centarians and how the people near Okinawa live a long life based on their ikigai, I found my ikigai. I have launched a new business and love to help others. I didn’t know how I was going to do this, but my experiences can be a learning lesson for others to avoid self-sabotage tactics and helping them find their ikigai will be a huge factor in my coaching. Not only to help my clients but to help me stay in my ikigai. Love the articles as I research more about this amazing way of thinking, working, teaching and life.
Thanku
My understanding of Ikigai from the Japanese side of things is there might be a connection to a job or a connection to what the world needs but it is not necessary. It isn’t necessary to involve any other people. This chart and such seems like a western expansion of the concept to fit what the researchers wanted it to mean.
My ikigai education is limited to this article and a few others that flew by as I fell down this rabbit hole. Climbing back out I have discovered “when you put your finger on what your ikigai is,…” you learn it is quicksilver.
I touch it for only a moment, revel in its discovery, and watch it shatter then run in a myriad of directions. Once it comes to a rest, its energized serenity glimmers in the light.
I fall in love with all I had fallen in love with before. Ikigai knows I am her stalker and the search for her begins anew.
Am I track? Is my ikigai my ikigai? Isn’t it everyones?
Hi John,
It sounds like this post has inspired some thinking for you! My sense is that only you can know when you’ve discovered your ikigai. However, what is common across many people’s discoveries is that through our ikigai comes a strong desire to serve others/feel like we are contributing to a purpose greater than ourselves.
Given that this is common across everyone’s experience, perhaps it is in this way that ikigai can feel shared, or like it is “everyone’s” as you say.
Best of luck with your continued exploration!
– Nicole | Community Manager
Thank you for providing a link to my questionnaire in this article! It’s a great article too, I’ve been meaning to spend more time studying Ikigai as part of my coaching practice and this provides a lot of insights.
I am grateful for this article. I am retiring in a month from my position as Director of a Counseling Center at a private University after 41 years of service to students.
I need to create a new story…. and I had some visits to Japan where I learned to appreciate their deep cultural values related to beauty and ways of living.
This will be a guide for me!
Thank you Jeremy Sutton.