Helpful Resources From PositivePsychology.com
We have many resources available for coaches, therapists, and health care workers working with individuals and groups as they age to support their mental wellness and cognitive performance.
Worksheets
Our resources include:
More extensive versions of the following tools are available with a subscription to the Positive Psychology Toolkit©, but they are described briefly below:
Stop holding grudges
As we journey through life, we often hold grudges against those we love and care about the most.
The following steps help by attending to specific times of love for one another:
- Step one – Spend five minutes thinking about someone you hold a grudge against.
- Step two – Write their name in a circle and spend five minutes reflecting on why you are grateful for them.
- Step three – Reflect on the following questions:
- How do you feel when you hold on to a grudge?
- How would you feel if you let go of the grudge?
- What are the pros and cons of removing grudges?
Apologizing effectively
We all make mistakes. Yet, they can leave us feeling guilty or impact our degree of self-belief. Over time, we can carry a great deal of pain.
Apologizing effectively can help remove the guilt associated with our mistakes and wrongdoings.
The following steps help by focusing on apologizing effectively:
- Step one – Acknowledge what we have done wrong and take responsibility.
- Step two – Provide an explanation for what happened.
- Step three – Express heartfelt remorse.
- Step four – Reflect on how to make amends and repair the damage.
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A Take-Home Message
Research identifies several brain-related changes as we age, including reduced neuroplasticity, changes to neurotransmitter levels, lowered blood flow and oxygenation, and reduced brain volume.
In addition, we only have limited control over some other factors, such as genetic predispositions, neurodegenerative diseases, hormonal changes, and environmental and socioeconomic triggers. However, understanding these triggers and their influence is crucial for managing a healthy mind.
While our brains and cognitive performances change over the years, we should not assume it is all downhill.
Western culture often makes impactful yet misleading assumptions about our aging population’s cognitive and mental wellbeing, suggesting the elderly will inevitably be more depressed and lonelier, need limited sleep, be unable to learn new things, and experience dementia or Alzheimer’s disease.
Such misconceptions are unhelpful or even damaging.
As a supportive coach, counselor, or health care professional, you can help aging clients focus on positive lifestyles that benefit a healthy mind and cognitive longevity. These include maintaining physical wellness, engaging in healthy eating and physical exercises, learning new skills, and remaining socially connected.
With the right attitude and a healthy mind, we can help our clients live long and prosper.
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