A Look at Goal Setting in Elementary and Middle School
Goal setting is a bit trickier in elementary and middle school than in high school. Younger children generally need a bit more guidance and supervision when setting and striving towards goals, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give it a shot!
Use the games, worksheets, and activities below to teach goal setting to your elementary and middle school students.
5 Games and Worksheets for Elementary Students (PDF)
1. Pressure Cooker
This game is a great way to get your elementary students to use their critical thinking skills.
It was designed to:
- Be challenging
- Be highly interactive and energetic
- Promote collaboration
- Foster critical thinking
- Work in small spaces
It takes only 15 to 20 minutes to play, keeping it within the attention span of the average elementary school student. You can have up to seven players.
Here’s what you’ll need to play:
- A long rope (around 7 meters)
- One numbered spot marker per player
- A stopwatch
Here’s how the game works:
- In advance, lay a long rope on the floor/ground to form a large circle.
- Collect and number as many spot markers as you have people in your group.
- Randomly distribute the numbered spot markers inside the circle.
- Ask each person to stand on top of one of the spot markers.
- When ready, instruct each individual to move to and touch every other spot in the ascending order of the numbers.
- For example, the person standing on spot #8 will move to 9, 10, 11 and 12 (presuming there are 12 people in the group,) before moving
- to 1, 2, 3 through to 8.
- As soon as an individual has touched all of the spot-markers and returns to their own, they will exit the circle.
- Challenge your group to perform this task as accurately and as fast as possible.
- Furthermore, challenge your group to solve this problem without stepping outside of the (roped) circle or touching any other person in the process (touching elsewhere within the circle is permitted.)
- Encourage your group to make as many attempts as possible within a specified time period, aiming to improve their performance with each attempt.
- Allow ample time for planning and problem-solving.
Click here to download the activity sheet and see popular variations on the game.
2. Cat on Yer Head
This silly game was designed to work with crowds and can accommodate medium to large groups.
The benefits of this game include:
- Very playful and fun
- The more the merrier!
- Promotes collaboration
- Friendly competition
- Simple props
It only takes 2 to 5 minutes to play, making it an excellent warm-up game. All you’ll need to play is some balloons and a stopwatch to keep track of time.
To play the game, follow these instructions:
- Choose or invite two volunteers seated in opposing corners of the room.
- Nominate one of these people to be the Cat, and the other person to be the Mouse.
- Announce that the Cat and the Mouse will soon move positions very quickly.
- To help identify where the Cat (or Mouse) is at any time, they must say the word “CAT” (or “MOUSE”) loudly over and over.
- The Cat and Mouse move whenever the person with it taps any person close to them on the shoulder.
- Practice this calling and tapping movement for 5 to 10 seconds to gauge understanding.
- Remind your group that both the Cat and the Mouse can be moved around the audience in any direction, at any time.
- Announce that the Cat has 30 seconds to catch (tag) the person with the Mouse.
- When ready, call “GO.”
- If the Cat catches the Mouse before the time expires, the Cat wins.
- If the Mouse survives for 30 seconds, the Mouse wins.
- Play several rounds and/or try a variation.
If you’d like to give this game a shot with your students, click here for the full game description and more information.
3. Longest Shadow
This is a quick problem-solving game that requires nothing but the sun! It’s good for up to 7 players and only takes 5 to 10 minutes to play.
Why would you choose the Longest Shadow?
- It’s simple to set up.
- It inspires creativity.
- It fosters collaboration.
- It requires no props!
Here’s how the game works:
- Invite your group outside on a bright, sunny day within a wide open space.
- Challenge your group to work together to position themselves in a manner that casts the longest shadow possible.
- Each group starts with their shadow touching a common starting line.
- To heighten the challenge and govern fair-play:
- The shadow must be one continuous line (i.e., all shadows must be connected); and
- Only bodies may be used to cast a shadow (i.e., no clothing or other props).
- Allow the group to have as many attempts as possible within 10 minutes.
- Measure and record the longest shadow.
To see the full game description and learn about popular variations of this game, click here.
4. Paper Holding
This fun and easy game is great for small groups and facilitates team-building.
You might want to try this game if you’re looking for something that:
- Is an innovative challenge.
- Fosters cooperation.
- Inspires creativity.
- Is very playful and fun!
It takes only 5 to 10 minutes to play and all you need is some paper.
Follow these steps to play the Paper Holding game:
- Form into teams of three to five people.
- By way of demonstration, ask two people from a team to volunteer and hold one sheet of paper between the palms of one of their hands.
- Each team is challenged to assist two of their group members to hold as many pieces of paper
off the ground by using only their bodies.
- To guide fair play, announce that:
- Only one sheet of paper can be affixed between any two body parts.
- No adhesives can be used to hold paper to one’s body.
- Folding the paper is not permitted.
- Each sheet of paper must be in contact with both team members.
- No two sheets of paper can be touching.
- Distribute sheets of paper to each team, and announce “GO.”
- Allow up to 10 minutes and survey the results.
If you want to play this game with your students, you can find more information by clicking here.
Click here to see more games you can use to help students learn about and practice goal setting and goal striving.
5. My Goals Worksheet
It’s not as fun as the games described above, but this worksheet is a great way for your students to practice identifying and planning for their goals.
It only requires them to set two goals and gives them ample room to write them down (although they may need your help with this).
After they have identified two goals, they answer the following prompts for each of them:
- This goal is important because…
- Steps I’ll take to reach this goal are…
It’s simple, easy, and won’t take more than 10 minutes or so, making it an excellent addition to the goal-setting curriculum either before or after one of the games above.
You can find the worksheet here.
8 Goal Setting Activities for Middle School Students (Incl. Worksheets)
If you’re a teacher of middle schoolers (or anyone else that interacts with several middle schoolers on a regular basis), these activities and worksheets will provide you with plenty of options for adding goal-setting into the curriculum.
1. Make a Family Bucket List
Making a bucket list is a great way to set goals, and this activity involves the whole family in the goal-setting practice. It’s a great way to both model goal setting and encourage your children to practice it themselves, all at once.
Here’s how to do it:
- Get your family together and collect a piece of paper and some markers.
- As a family, brainstorm a list of accomplishments, experiences, or achievement goals that you want to work towards as a family over the next year.
- At the end of the year, look back over your list and see what you’ve accomplished. Celebrate the goals you accomplished as a family.
- Encourage your children to use online tools like Trello or Evernote to help create this bucket list and/or to create one for themselves.
2. Draw a Wheel of Fortune
The wheel of fortune is a fun way to introduce goal setting in different areas of life. It will show your children that you don’t need to keep your goals limited to school or work, you can set goals in all life domains.
Follow these steps to create and use a wheel of fortune:
- Draw a circle and divide it into even segments (like you’re cutting a pizza into slices).
- On each segment, write one of the important life domains; for example, you might write “Family,” “Friends,” “School/Work,” “Hobbies,” “Health,” and “Fun.”
- For each domain, have your child write out the goals she would like to accomplish. Make sure she keeps the goals to a specific timeline (e.g., a month, 3 months, a year).
Make sure to help her keep track of her progress throughout the timeline you chose.
3. Create a Vision Board
Vision boards are a great way to plan out your goals, especially the big ones that are especially meaningful to you. Helping your children or students create a vision board will challenge them, get them thinking about what is most important to them, and encourage them to stay motivated in striving towards their goals.
Here’s how to create an effective vision board:
- Gather some old magazines (you can also draw pictures, use newspapers, print out some pictures, etc.) and have your students cut out some pictures that represent their hopes and dreams for the future.
- Help your students arrange the pictures on a piece of cardboard and use glue to secure them in place. You can also provide glitter, stickers, ribbons, markers, and anything else they might like to decorate their vision board with.
- Ask your students to describe what each picture represents and how he or she plans to work toward that goal. If your class is too large or you have some shy students, ask them to write it down instead of sharing it out to the group.
Send them home with their vision board or hang it somewhere in the classroom if there’s space for all of them.
4. Play 3 Stars and a Wish
This is a fun and easy game that you can play with your students or your children to help them start thinking about their goals.
It’s a simple activity with simple rules:
- Ask your students or children to come up with three “stars,” or things that they do well. The sky is the limit for this activity—the thing they’re good at can be anything from a subject in school to a quality that makes him or her a good friend.
- Now that they have their three stars, tell them to come up with a “wish” to complement their stars; the wish should be something that the children need to work on or would like to get better at. Again, they are only limited by their imagination. They can pick any goal, as long as it is meaningful and important to them.
This activity will not only help them come up with important goals, but it will also help them develop the self-belief they need to succeed.
5. Ask Fun Questions
Asking questions is a great way to get your children or students thinking about what is important to them, what they’d like to achieve or accomplish, and how they can get there.
There are tons of fun questions out there, but here are a couple of examples to get you started:
- Ask your students “What would you do if you won the lottery?” or “If you had a superpower, how would you use it?”
- Listen to their answers and encourage them to be detailed.
- Discuss how they can take their fate into their own hands by making a plan to achieve the hopes, goals, and dreams they identified in their answers.
Continue the discussion as often as you can to make sure they are still thinking about their long-term goals and actively planning ways to reach them.
6. Interest Maps
Interest maps are best for older students, so you may want to save this for upper middle school or junior high students.
Here’s how to help your children or students create an interest map:
- Ask your students to think about what they like to do. Do they like art? Science? Writing? Sports? Have them think about all of their interests and favorite things to do, and write them down.
- Help them look through their list of interests and see if they can find any patterns; for example, maybe most of their interests involve helping other people or being outside.
- Have them create an interest map by creating a web of circles and filling them in with their interests in a way that makes sense (e.g., similar interests by one another).
- Based on their interest map, assist them in creating goals that are relevant and meaningful to them.
This activity will help your students learn more about themselves, which is a vital prerequisite to setting good goals.
7. New Year Reflections and Resolutions
Middle-school-age children will likely have a grasp of the ritual that is setting New Year’s resolutions. They will also be at an age where they are demonstrating more agency and preferences in regards to their studies and extracurricular activities.
Making a ritual out of setting New Year’s resolutions not only serves as a great opportunity to set goals, but it provides an opportunity to encourage children to reflect on the challenges and triumphs of the previous year, fostering gratitude and a sense of accomplishment.
To facilitate this activity, ask your child to reflect on some of the following questions:
- What are you most proud of having achieved in the past year?
- What do you think you could have done better in the past year?
- What’s something you felt particularly passionate about in the past year?
- What new goal would you like to accomplish in the new year?
- What’s a behavior you’d like to stop in the new year?
- What’s a behavior you’d like to start doing in the new year?
- What’s something new you’d like to try in the new year?
This is a great exercise to do together as a family. This way, you as the adult can also describe your reflections and set new goals in your personal or professional life. This will allow you to set an example for your kids, who may wish to set goals regarding their schooling, sports, or other extracurricular activities.
For a range of useful worksheets to help your child set goals for the new year, take a look at the templates available at Charts4Kids.com.
8. My Goals Worksheet
This worksheet is an effective tool for encouraging children to think more about their goals and plan on how to meet them.
At the top of the worksheet, there is a box for them to identify their goal and a box to note the target date for completion of their goal.
Next, they are asked to identify three actions that will allow them to reach their goal. These should be relevant and realistic actions that will lead them to completing their goal by their target date.
At the bottom, there is space to explain how they will know they’ve reached their goal (e.g., what will it look like when they achieve their goal, what the outcome will be). Plus, they are prompted to come up with two things that will help them stick to working towards their goal (e.g., an encouraging friend, a motivating thought).
To see this worksheet or download it for use in your classroom, click here.
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