10 Worksheets, PDF’s, PPT’s and ACT Resources
Are you ready to use ACT as a way to improve your life or the life of your clients? If so, read on for excellent resources to apply the science of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to your work.
Many of these are made available by the organization ACT Mindfully, which is a great resource.
Follow this link for a PDF that includes several worksheets and lots of information on how to guide a client through them.
1. Triggers, Behaviors, and Payoffs (page 7)
This worksheet is a fillable matrix on page 6 with one column for writing down triggers (situations, thoughts, or feeling that immediately precede a certain behavior), behaviors (what you actually do), and payoffs (the immediate outcomes of the behavior that encourage the behavior to continue).
This worksheet can help you or your clients identify self-defeating behaviors with the motivation behind them, which can be a first step to recognizing and modifying problematic behavior.
2. Bull’s Eye: Clarifying Your Values (page 9)
Another worksheet presents the Values Bull’s Eye, or a set of concentric circles that are separated into four quadrants: work/education, leisure, personal growth/health, and relationships.
The exercise involves placing an “X” on the circle that most closely represents how you feel in the present moment.
The closer to the middle the X is, the more you feel you are behaving like the person you want to be. The further out the X is, the less you feel like the person you want to be. This worksheet can be found in the PDF above on page 11 or individually here.
3. The ‘Triflex’ Psychological Flexibility Assessment Tool (pages 14-15)
The final pages in the PDF from ACT Mindfully help you estimate your psychological flexibility based on three factors:
- Ability to open up
- Ability to be present
- Ability to do what matters
Here you will find a visual representation of psychological flexibility, an explanation of each of these three factors, and a method of estimating your abilities in these areas at this moment.
4. “The Happiness Trap” Worksheets
Another PDF packed with worksheets is provided by www.thehappinesstrap.com. This PDF can be found here, and includes these worksheets:
The Cost of Avoidance Worksheet (pages 4-5)
This worksheet present four sentences for you to complete:
- The thoughts I’d most like to get rid of are:
- The feelings I’d most like to get rid of are:
- The sensations I’d most like to get rid of are:
- The memories I’d most like to get rid of are:
Next, you are asked to write a list of everything you have done to try to avoid or get rid of these thoughts, feelings, sensations, and memories. Distracting yourself from these, avoiding activities, or using substances to self-medicate are a few examples of avoidance techniques.
Then you are asked to consider these questions for each item:
- Did this action get rid of my painful thoughts and feelings in the long term?
- Did it bring me closer to a rich, full, and meaningful life?
- If the answer to question 2 is “no,” then what did this action cost me in terms of time, energy, money, health, relationships, and vitality?
This worksheet can help you become aware of your own avoidance strategies, and whether they are producing the results you want.
Informal Mindfulness Exercises (page 9)
This page introduces two simple mindfulness exercises for any typical day:
- Mindfulness in Your Morning Routine: This exercise encourages you to notice the sensations while getting ready in the morning, such as the taste of your toothpaste, the smell of your face wash, or the feel of hot water on your body in the shower.
- Mindfulness of Domestic Chores: This exercise is one you can practice by simply being aware of the sensations you experience as you sweep the floors, do a load of laundry, or make dinner. Since you “always” have to do the dishes, why not take the time to do it mindfully? It’s good for your brain.
This worksheet allows space for you to imagine some informal mindfulness exercises to add to your day, such as while waiting in traffic or while walking from your car to your door. Maybe it’s as little as “no-phone” time while you grocery shop or wait in line.
Values Assessment Rating Form (page 12)
The Values Assessment Rating Form provides a matrix with 10 life domains (e.g., couples/intimate relationships, parenting, employment, etc.) and 4 columns to fill out:
- Valued direction (a brief summary of your goal for each domain)
- Importance of this value in your life
- Success in living this value
- Rank in order of importance you place on working on this domain right now
The Values Assessment Rating Form can help you identify where you are falling short of your goals and where you are meeting your goals, as well as aiding the prioritization of meeting these goals going forward.
Goal Setting Worksheet (page 16)
This worksheet guides the reader through the values that underlie their goals and how to make sure these goals are SMART goals. SMART is an acronym for goals that are Specific, Meaningful, Adaptive, Realistic, and Time-bound.
This activity will help you understand how to set goals that you can meet, rather than lofty ideas that are not backed by concrete actions.
What To Do in a Crisis (page 20)
This informational page offers a practical and useful response for when you face a crisis.
This response is called STOP:
- Slow your breathing: enter into a quick and simple mindfulness practice.
- Take note: noticing what you are experiencing in the present moment.
- Open up: allow yourself to feel without judgment or avoidance.
- Pursue your values: decide what the best course of action is based on your most important values.
Here is a list of things to consider during this exercise:
- Consider if you need assistance or support, and who could provide you with the assistance or support you need.
- Think about whether you have experienced anything similar before, and how you responded to it then.
- Consider ways to improve the situation, even in the smallest way, whether it’s in the next few minutes or the next few days.
- Be willing to practice acceptance if you cannot improve your situation, and commit to spending your time and energy in a constructive way.
- Ask yourself what the best way is to deal with this situation or, as the metaphor goes, how to play the game with the cards you have been dealt.
- Remember to practice self-compassion; if you need inspiration, imagine a friend or loved one was going through your experience right now, and tell yourself whatever you imagine telling them.
5. Psychological Inflexibility
For therapists and other mental health professionals, this PDF from The HappinessTrap aligns with ACT principles as well. It provides questions for you to assess your clients for their psychological inflexibility.
Psychological inflexibility is the extent to which anyone has trouble practicing the six core processes. The questions map to the opposite of the six core processes as follows:
- The dominance of the conceptualized past or future; limited self-knowledge (vs. acceptance)
- Fusion (vs. defusion)
- Experiential avoidance (vs. being present)
- Attachment to the conceptualized self (vs. self as context)
- Lack of values clarity/contact (vs. values)
- Unworkable action (vs. committed action)
This set of questions can be a great tool to help your clients ascertain where to focus their energy. This is a critical step to embracing their experiences and act according to their deepest values.
6. Applying Mindfulness to Your Therapeutic Practice
If you’re looking for a visual resource on how to apply ACT in your practice, check out this slide presentation on acceptance and mindfulness as therapeutic tools.
This presentation includes information on how mindfulness and acceptance can benefit people who are struggling. It also explores the theories behind how ACT works, along with suggestions for therapists who want to introduce their clients to mindfulness.
Related: 21 ACT Worksheets and Ways to Apply Acceptance & Commitment Therapy
The section above includes several resources with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy practices, and now we’ll describe the most popular exercises and metaphors in detail=.
Several of these can be found on the Association for Contextual Behavioral Science website, on their ACT exercises page or their ACT metaphors page. For each exercise or metaphor, a link will be provided to the exercise for you to learn more.
Writing Acceptance Exercise by Matthieu Villatte
This is a quick exercise for mental health professionals to help their clients understand how avoidance can be counterproductive. This exercise can be completed in the following steps:
- Give your client a sheet of paper and a pen and ask them if they are ready for written instructions.
- Before the client can write anything, present an obstacle that obstructs the client’s ability to see the paper and pen (e.g., a piece of cardboard, a mask with severely limited vision, etc.)
- Ask the client if this bothers them and if they’d rather be able to see as they write. Inform them that the obstacle will stay, but they should still attempt to work around the obstacle in order to write the sentence.
- Let them struggle with seeing around the obstacle for 20 to 30 seconds. They probably will not have written anything readable at this point.
- Ask the client about their experience (i.e., “How was it? Was it difficult? Were you able to write the sentence? Can we read it?”)
- Propose that the client stop trying to see around the obstacle, but just accept that it is there and write the sentence anyway.
- The sentence they write when focusing on writing (instead of avoiding) will likely be more readable. Point this out to them and help them make the connection between avoiding the physical obstacle and avoiding emotional pain, and the negative consequences of each.
You can find this exercise in more detail here.
Two Sides of the Same Coin by Jenna LeJeune
This exercise can be guided by a therapist or completed on your own. Following these steps can help you or your client understand that suffering is an inevitable part of life; if we eradicated suffering, we would also eliminate joy.
Follow these steps to give this exercise a try:
- Find an activity or relationship that you find valuable, but that you have retreated from recently;
- Take out an index card or piece of paper. On one side, write down what you value about that activity or relationship or what you hope to achieve or become through it;
- On the other side, write down the difficult thoughts and feelings that sometimes happen for you, when you take action towards gaining the value or achievements written on the other side;
- Put the card in your pocket, wallet, or purse. Over the next week, take it out, look at both sides, and ask yourself if you are willing to have that card, with both the good and bad. You can either avoid both the value and the pain, or you can embrace them both.
For more information on this exercise and the story behind it, check it out here, and look here for a similar exercise from ACBS.
Mindfulness of Emotions by Carol Vivyan
This is a mindfulness technique that can defuse a strong, negative emotion. Follow the steps to renew your focus on acceptance and positive action toward your values:
- Sit comfortably in a quiet area. Bring your attention to your breath, feeling the sensations of breathing without trying to manipulate your breath;
- Notice the emotion(s) you are feeling, and what it feels like;
- Name the emotion. Identify what it is and what word best describes how you are feeling;
- Accept the emotion as a natural and normal reaction to the circumstances. Don’t condone it or judge it, just let it move through you;
- Investigate the emotion by asking questions like: How intensely am I feeling this emotion? Has my breathing changed? What are the accompanying sensations in my body? How is my posture? Am I experiencing increased tension in my muscles? What is my facial expression at this moment? How does my face feel?
- Notice the thoughts or judgments that arise, but let them pass. If you find yourself dwelling on any of them, gently bring your attention back to your breathing to re-center, then visit the emotion again. This technique may produce the best results when starting small and working your way up to more intense emotions.
To read the entire technique description and try it for yourself, click here.
The Valued Directions Worksheet by John Forsyth and Georg Eifert
This exercise is a great first step for anyone looking to start practicing ACT techniques. Values, as mentioned earlier, are a foundational piece in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
The Valued Directions worksheet presents 10 value domains for the reader to consider:
- Work/career;
- Intimate relationships;
- Parenting;
- Education/learning/personal growth;
- Friends/social life;
- Health/physical self-care;
- Family of origin (or relationships other than marriage or parenting)
- Spirituality Community life/environment/nature;
- Recreation/leisure;
The exercise then asks the reader to rate the importance of each value domain on a scale of 0 (not at all important) to 2 (very important). There is nothing wrong with valuing some areas more than others.
Then, readers rate their satisfaction with their lives in each area on a scale of 0 (not at all satisfied) to 2 (very satisfied).
Once the ratings have been completed, the exercise asks readers to review any value rated as a 1 or 2 on the importance scale and write their intentions in that area for the foreseeable future. In other words, write down what you want to achieve, maintain, or become in each important value area.
These are not goals that can be completed and “checked off,” but rather they are actionable goals that match how you want to live your life each day.
This exercise can help clarify what is important and needs to be prioritized in your life. It’s best if you have a therapist or qualified professional to discuss the results and actionable goals with. It is still a powerful exercise whether you are currently attending therapy or not.
To give this exercise a try, follow this link.
For more ACT exercises, check out the exercises, techniques, and worksheets on the following sites:
Metaphors also play a key role in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. They provide clients with a simple way to understand how their feelings and thoughts influence their actions, and thus, allow people to visualize how adjusting our thoughts affects our behaviors.
Here are three of our favorite metaphors relevant to ACT.
The Sailing Boat Metaphor
This metaphor uses the setting of a small sailing boat, with “you” as the sailor.
Occasionally, waves send water over the side and into the boat, causing you the inconvenience of wet feet. The boat includes a bailer to bail out this water, and you know how to use it.
So one day, when a particularly big wave breaks over the side and leaves water in your boat, you start bailing. You may start bailing calmly or mindfully, but eventually, you might find yourself bailing desperately or wildly to get rid of all this water.
While you’ve been bailing, have you noticed what is happening to your boat? Where is it headed? Where has it drifted to? Would it be fair to say you’ve been bailing more than sailing?
Now imagine that you take a look at the bailer and see that it is really a sieve, full of holes? What would you do?
The implicit purpose of bailing water here is probably to get your boat back on track – once you rid the boat of the water. But if your tool is not suited to the task, you will find yourself struggling to get rid of any water, let alone guide your boat.
The question is would you rather be on a boat that has only a little water in the bottom, but is drifting without direction, or on a boat that may have quite a bit of water in the bottom but is heading in the direction you wish to go?
This metaphor can help you or your clients realize two things:
- The techniques we use to deal with our problematic thoughts and feelings are tools like the bailer and the sieve, and some are better than others.
- Sometimes working desperately to avoid wet feet (or other painful or uncomfortable feelings) gets us so off-track; the distraction and struggle of “wet feet” become our blocks to reaching our goals, not the waves.
This metaphor can be accessed in its entirety, as part of the Positive Psychology Toolkit©.
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Very helpful overview- I only have opened a couple of the links so far but am VERY appreciative of the thoroughness in your compilation!
You claimed I could download three mindfulness exercises for free. However, I was led to a site that requested a $100 payment. Thanks for reinforcing negative thoughts. Very disappointing
Hi Lisa,
I apologize for the inconvenience and frustration you experienced. I notified the team to ensure the link directs to the three complimentary mindfulness exercises. In the meantime, please use this link to access the three mindfulness exercises.
I hope this helps!
Kind regards,
Julia | Community Manager
I live in southern California, who can I contact to begin therapy, and will it be covered by my insurance?
Hi Donna,
Thanks for your question. As we are not based in the California, it is difficult for us to make recommendations for reliable therapists. I suggest you look for a therapist directory in your area and filter your search. Insurance coverage varies per situation.
I hope this helps 🙂
Kind regards,
-Caroline | Community Manager
ACT is right if you go a bit ‘Radical’!
Acceptance and Commitment therapy has been validated mainly through correlational studies between groups that use ACT and those that don’t, or ‘between group’ designs, that unfortunately leave a lot of room for debate for the relative efficacy of alternative therapies such as CBT and other talk therapies. Here is a validation from a ‘within’ subject design (mapping behavior to actual brain processes) that maps the concepts of acceptance and commitment to bio-behavioral events, or a radical behaviorism. It does not engage the complex syntactic structures of relational frame theory, and is therefore quite simple.
A Commitment to Values works, but best while in a resting or relaxed state. Here is why.
Positivity Simplified
Persistent positive or meaningful thinking in a resting state will increase pleasure and arousal, and avoid negative ideation that elicits opposing emotional states.
Positivity Explained
Any relaxation protocol from eyes closed rest to mindfulness is pleasurable, due to the release of endogenous opioids. If concurrent persistent positive or meaningful ideation occurs (meaning is defined as thinking of or doing actions that have branching novel positive implications, or virtual positive act-outcome contingencies), this induces a feeling of arousal as mediated by dopamine systems. Dopamine and opioid systems are synergistic, or when activated simultaneously reciprocally stimulate each other, causing feelings of greater pleasure and arousal, or ecstatic states. This explains why ‘loving kindness’ meditation, savoring, peak, or flow experiences that have rest as an entailment ‘feel’ different from resting states, yet nonetheless represent unremarkable and simple neural processes that can be explained and replicated with ease by anyone.
An Aside on ACT
Ironically, this procedure may be termed ‘relaxation and commitment’ in contrast to ‘acceptance and commitment’, as relaxation protocols by design involve the avoidance of negative ideation or an ‘acceptance’ of the status quo. The difference is that the former derives from a radical or bio-behaviorism, while the latter derived from a behavior analytic theory of language.
A formal explanation from a neurologically based learning theory or ‘radical behaviorism’ of this technique is provided on pp. 44-51 in a little open-source book on the psychology of rest linked below. (The flow experience is discussed on pp. 81-86.)
https://www.scribd.com/doc/284056765/The-Book-of-Rest-The-Odd-Psychology-of-Doing-Nothing
The Psychology of Rest, from the International Journal of Stress Management, and from the Journal ‘The Behavior Analyst Today’ by this author
https://www.scribd.com/doc/121345732/Relaxation-and-Muscular-Tension-A-bio-behavioristic-explanation
https://www.scribd.com/document/16384355/Stress-and-the-Cinderella-Effect
More on Neurologically Grounded Learning Theory- Berridge Lab, University of Michigan
https://www.scribd.com/document/447163649/Berridge-Reward-Learning-Incentives-and-Expectations
and The Psychology of Incentive Motivation and Affect (for a layman’s version)
https://www.scribd.com/document/495438436/A-Mouse-s-Tale-a-practical-explanation-and-handbook-of-motivation-from-the-perspective-of-a-humble-creature
This was great! Thank you so much!
Please explain how Acceptance and Commitment Therapy works. I am trying to do a presentation for my mom to look at (of course) so that then she can learn about what Acceptance and Commitment Therapy is and how it works and many other topics about Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
Hi Shawn,
In addition to the details throughout this article, professional ACT trainer, Dr Russell Harris, has a great little PDF handout that succinctly explains the process and benefits of ACT, which applies many of the same principles of mindfulness. You can download that here. 🙂
Hope this helps!
– Nicole | Community Manager